Libby Trainor Parker's new book shines a light on the hidden grief of pregnancy loss

Journalist, author and performer Libby Trainor Parker shares a practical and compassionate guide to surviving miscarriage, infertility and grief. Publication date: 30 June 2026.

Every year, an estimated 150,000 pregnancies end in loss in Australia, yet for many families the experience remains one of the least talked about forms of grief.

In her powerful new book, A Common Misconception, journalist, author and award-winning cabaret performer Libby Trainor Parker combines deeply personal experience with stories and advice to create the supportive guide she wishes had existed during her own journey through 11 pregnancy losses and years of infertility.

Part memoir, part practical handbook, A Common Misconception offers comfort, understanding and guidance for anyone navigating miscarriage, infertility or the complex grief that can follow. Written in Trainor Parker’s warm, honest and often humorous style, the book acknowledges the heartbreak of pregnancy loss while reminding readers they are far from alone.

“When I was going through pregnancy loss, I discovered there were plenty of medical books explaining what was happening to my body, but very few that told me how to survive emotionally or deal with all the unsolicited advice and well-meaning but insensitive comments from friends, family and colleagues,” says Libby Trainor Parker. “I wrote this book to be the friend who sits beside you in the darkest moments, who answers the questions nobody else seems to, and who reminds you that your grief is real, valid and shared by so many others.”

Drawing on interviews with medical professionals, psychologists, a sexologist and people who have experienced loss themselves, A Common Misconception explores the realities of miscarriage, infertility, IVF, recurrent pregnancy loss, relationships, returning to work, navigating insensitivity and finding hope after heartbreak.

“This book is a stigma-smashing, hope-giving, anecdote-telling kind of support. It is your best mate who comes over with soft, stinky cheese, deli meats, shellfish and wine as soon as you tell them your test is negative or your pregnancy is non-viable,” Trainor Parker says. “This book is a warm hug, a friendship circle, a big sister. And this sister has been there. She understands. She’s holding your hand and walking you through some of the really tough stuff you’re feeling.”

While the subject matter is serious, the book is also filled with warmth, gentle humour and practical strategies, making it a companion readers can return to whenever they need it.

Dr Caroline West, host of ABC TV health series Ask the Doctor says of A Common Misconception: This book helps to smash the stigma around surviving miscarriage and infertility. For too long women and their family and partners have suffered in silence. Beautifully written, warm and engaging, it’s like a big hug from a wise friend. Libby Trainor Parker’s book is highly recommended. It opens up a much-needed, compassionate conversation around miscarriage, infertility and grief.

With pregnancy loss affecting millions of people worldwide each year, A Common Misconception aims to start conversations, reduce stigma and ensure that no one has to walk through this experience feeling isolated.

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